I Have A Secret!

I have a secret.

There’s parts of me that I haven’t really wanted to share here.

I’ve been a little scared that maybe I’ll scare you off or it’ll be too much.

But I realize now that you’re my people and we don’t have to hide any parts of ourself from each other!

So I’m coming out!

Every single part of my life is different now than it was when my mother died 10 years ago.

I have burned my life down and started over – in big ways and small ones – so many times over the past decade.

Grief brought me closer to myself and my desires.

It made me become obsessed with wanting to live the truest, most beautiful life.

Because in the end that’s all that remains.

I left a perfectly lovely marriage.

Came out at queer

Left a career in higher education.

Started a business.

Changed my business.

And changed my business again!

I dared to love big.

Had my heart shattered.

Broke my own heart (too many times!)

And found the most perfect love.

I earned a doctorate

Went from being the ultimate people pleaser to being arrested for disrupting the Senate.

And went from saying no to “yes, and” helping me find more joy and curiosity for life.

I have let grief and love and joy and life crack me wide open.

I have found depths to myself that I didn’t know existed.

And as a result, I have fallen wildly in love with myself and the life I’ve created. It is expansive and free and profoundly beautiful.

And I’ve been scared to tell the whole story of who I am and the path I’ve walked, because I'm scared that you’ll think I want you to burn down your life in the same way.

But the truth is that the only thing that I want for you is to live the truest and best life that’s available to you right now. To have the life of your wildest dreams!

So now I want you to see where I’ve been and who I am, so you know the kind of guide you have in working with me. I’m not taking you to places I’ve never been. You can trust that even when you’re scared, I’m here and I’ve walked this path before. You are always held.

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with love + solidarity,
Victoria

PS: A pleasurable life is also one where you don’t have to hide! Thank you for witnessing me and for being in this community. I’d love to receive a quick response to know that you’re here and reading along! It means the world to me to receive notes back from you about this, or any of my emails, thank you.