Happy New Year!
Is anyone else still feeling tired and foggy, like you’re still not sure what day it is or what your job is? Just me?!
Cheers to a new year and the same us.
The internet is a buzz with in/out lists for 2024 and while I hate a New Year’s resolution – hello ADHD! – I am enjoying thinking about reflections on the old year and goals for a new year.
I haven’t felt this way about a new year in a while.
Not totally optimistic, but also ready.
Excited, but realistic.
I told a friend the other day that I feel like I’m meandering into 2024 with my eyes wide open. With a soft heart, a solid set of goals, and also the bittersweet taste of reality on my tongue. It’s not all going to be easy, shit will probably hit the fan at some point, I’ve got some hard work to do, and it’s also going to be absolutely wonderful and worth it.
I’m excited about the potential of 2024, but without ignoring all the red flags.
Almost like a proper grown up! ha!
Can you relate to that vibe in 2024??
2023 brought me some amazing things – a new house, a beautiful blended family, amazing clients and work opportunities, and more joy than I ever imagined. Of course that means it also brought up old patterns, self doubt, and a healthy dose of shitfuckery. I lost my footing at times, was surprised often – sometimes by how good life could be and sometimes by my own bullshit, and I also found new parts of me that I am falling in absolute love with. All in all, I gained a lot of clarity and for that I am super grateful.
And now I’m entering 2024 aware of the shitfuckery, invested in healing the old patterns, and committed to more presence. I’m ready to deepen my self love in 2024 and to remember how flipping trustworthy I am, so I can stop doubting myself. I’m ready for more presence, more acceptance, and deeper roots. I’m also ready for a ton more fun, more joy, and more money! ;)
So with that, here’s my In + Out list for ‘24…
OUT
Being right instead of curious & connected
Squeezing into tight jeans
Letting words and conversations stay stuck in my throat instead of speaking them aloud
Self doubt
Being more committed to timelines than to my own needs & comfort
Forgetting myself
IN
Accountability and apologies when I haven’t acted in line with my integrity
Loving myself like a motherfucker, even when I’m a messy asshole
Naps
Morning rituals
Accepting what is, not what could/should/would be
Boundaries
More compassion + curiosity
Cooking delicious meals
Reading books
Saving money
Free Palestine
Basically I’m determined to remember that I’m the same me in the new year, which means that I’m constantly evolving, healing, and becoming (or unbecoming). And I intend to love myself better than I ever have before, in all the ways.
What about you?
What’s in + out for you in the new year?
I’d really love to hear!
And in case you haven’t heard, I’ve got 2 new ways to support you in 2024!
The January Refresh, which is a month of support for you to start the new year feeling some renewal and rejuvenation. A chance to arrive at the start line of 2024 with a sense of preparedness and renewal.
Shadow Play is a 6 month deep dive into self love, self acceptance, and self trust. It’s the exact transformation that you’re craving with all off the support, guidance, and love you deserve. Let’s play together with all the joys and all the shadows that this year (and this life!) has to offer.
Let’s hop on a call to chat about your goals and how I can support you reaching them!
2024 is your year, babe!
Let's make it so.
With love + solidarity,
Victoria