A Declaration

A declaration.

What if there is actually nothing wrong with me?!

What if every single thing that I judge and hide and shame about myself is actually fucking brilliant?
An essential part of the whole that makes up the perfectly imperfect me?

What if I’m not a bad mother because sometimes I don’t know what I’m doing?

What if I’m not a bad business owner because sometimes I don’t know what I’m doing?

What if I’m not a bad friend because sometimes I don’t wanna leave the f*cking house?

What if I’m not a bad coach because some days I fall into old patterns and feel shitty about myself?

What if I’m not a bad partner because sometimes I get really grumpy and closed off?

What if I’m not a bad human because some days I can’t hold all of the horrible stuff that’s happening?

What if none of me is bad or broken or wrong?

What if today I decided to love the shit out of every single ounce of my humanity?

The stuff I forget to remember.

The times I get overstimulated and dysregulated.

The times when I cry. A lot.

The times when I don’t know how I’m gonna pay the rent.

The times when I wanna hide under a weighted blanket and wave the white flag and try again tomorrow.

What if you decided to do the same??

Let’s start a goddamn self love revolution in our own hearts, shall we??

Tell me, what’s one thing that you judge about yourself that you’re going to love today? Truly! Reply! I really wanna hear.

I love you.

Yup, even that part!  


With love & solidarity,
Victoria


PS: Here are some of the ways that you can work with me right now.

1. I have a few spots open for one on one coaching this spring. You and me working together for 4 months. Think big self love vibes, radical transformation, and you getting to have more of everything that you want. No more suffering. No more good enough. No more anxiety and uncertainty. How much more time and energy and capacity would you have?! It's absolutely life changing and you deserve it! Let's hop on a call today to see if we're a good match.

2. Join Dana + I over at Reconnecting with Pleasure. We have a fun weekly podcast to help you cultivate more pleasure and joy, and an amazing group coaching program, Reconnecting with Pleasure, where we support folks in cultivating a pleasure-centered life. This is the perfect space for women and femmes who are craving more.

3.  Jen + I are doing amazing foundational workshops, facilitator trainings, and supporting organizations integrate a DEI lens into their practice. Schedule a call to learn more!